“There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophies.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
The secret to head-spinning nooky is priming yourselves before you do the deed. You wouldn’t expect a pot of water to go from zero to boiling point in seconds flat, right? Well, the same goes for sex – giving your body time to warm up before the act is the key to reaching peak pleasure. You’ll have the hottest intercourse when there’s been a ton of buildup before foreplay. Plus, you’ll love the extra passion prelude as well. Try out some of these hot preplay ideas to figure out the carnal cocktail that works best for the both of you.
Sensual Solo Moves
- During downtime (for example, while you are standing in line at the store or while you’re in the car, driving home), mentally play out a lusty fantasy.
- Work out for two hours before ‘the big night’ to boost endorphins in your body and to get your blood pumping in the right areas.
- Transform your room into a soothing pleasure palace – change your sheets with new, freshly perfumed ones and turn on soft lamps or light a candle.
- If you’re home first, change into the clothes you mostly feel comfortable in and get your mind in the zone by reading an erotic short story (you’ll find loads on the net, if you don’t have such a book in the house).
Tricks to try together
- Exchange text messages, starting with fairly tame notes (‘You have the sexiest lips’) and then get naughtier.
- Really enjoy little sensations you can get by barely touching her – such as feeling her hair between your fingers.
- Start an erotic ritual that you do only before sex. For instance, rub lotion all over your partner’s body and stretch out together in bed while it soaks in. Eventually, both your bodies and minds will associate the experience with arousal, so you’ll get turned on automatically.
- Ask her a risqué question like ‘What’s the one part of my body that you would love to put your mouth on right now?’.
- Undress each other slowly. Unbutton her blouse, and spend a few minutes giving her little kisses around the waistband of her skirt without tugging it off yet. Then let her remove your shirt and kiss you along your shoulders and chest.
- Sip champagne in the tub. (Skip the shower – it will put you in work mode.) Wash each other’s hair, giving each other tingly head massages.
- Have her sit on the bed so she’s facing you and wrap her legs around your waist. Then give each other a simultaneous shoulder rub, taking breaks to kiss surprisingly erotic areas – the inside of her wrists for example, or the back of her knees.
- Have her slide on top of you completely naked with both of her arms and legs spread out mirroring yours, and slowly breathe in sync for at least one minute.
Have a smoldering hot week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. More reasons to spend extra time getting into booty mood: it takes women at least 20 minutes to reach the physical arousal that you reach in 3. So go ahead, prolong the passion! To discover more advanced tips and techniques about erotic massage CLICK HERE NOW!
