“Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.”- Richard P. Feynman
A lot of the time sex can feel, for a man especially, like a (much less dangerous, to be honest) game of Russian roulette: You take a spin between the sheets, never knowing if it’s going to end with a bang. That is, you can’t control the type of bang you are going to end up delivering: the fast one, which leaves you ashamed, wondering how to explain the rapidness and lack of satisfaction to your partner, or the powerful one, which leaves both of you orgasm-full and satisfied.
But there’s a new, easy way to boost your chances of curing premature ejaculation and of having an explosive orgasm together with your partner. A new study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine has found that you’re more likely to last longer if you mix it up and try different sex moves, rather than sticking to just a few. Pick one of these five-move sequences, and brace yourself for a body-quaking finish.
1) When she wants to be in charge
• Lie on the bed, then have her stand up and invite you to watch while she softly strokes herself all over. This “show” will get you sufficiently aroused, but not too much as to experience a hasty ejaculation.
• As she steps closer to the mattress, guide your hand between her legs. While you’re doing this, watch the pleasure register on her face as you stimulate her clitoris. By focusing on her pleasure, you put the brakes on yours and are able to delay your orgasm.
• Have her climb on top of the bed so she’s hovering over you on all fours, with her legs on either side of your torso and her breasts at your face level. She should alternate dipping each of her nipples into your mouth. Taking your time and not rushing into penetration will harden your sense of arousal and at the same time your ability to last for as long as she needs you to.
• For even more “interesting” variation, she should flip around, and go down on you with her head facing your feet and her backside and girl bits on eye-popping display. Offer the same erotic treat and she’ll be ready to orgasm in a matter of minutes.
• For racking up both orgasms, have her transition into cowgirl position, and touch herself as she grinds against you in slow, erotic circles.
2) When you’re in the mood for a quickie
• Sit down, and have her straddle just one of your legs. As you make out passionately, rub your thigh against her clitoris to get her going.
• Once you feel her wetness on your thigh, put her down on the bed and kiss her all over the labia and clitoris, inserting two fingers inside her vagina. The suddenness will rev her from 0 to 69.
• Now that her lady bits are lubed up with your saliva and her own delicious vaginal liquids, you should MacGyver your penis— use it as a sex toy by pressing it against her clitoris and sliding it back and forth.
• Get into standing doggie position, and then press your hand against her clitoris with her hand on top to ensure she gets the exact pressure/movement she needs.
• Finish off things by having her move her legs closer together—the extra-tight fit will make things more intense, pushing you both over the edge.
3) When she’s a little stressed
• Mid-kiss, rub her scalp. Press in the pads of your fingers, and slowly drag them to the top of her neck. Once you get her relaxed, you’ll be able to relax as well, so that you don’t end up ejaculating out of sheer anxiety of not being able to get her in the mood.
• Place your hands on her waist, fingers up, and slide your palms up and down, teasingly grazing the sides of her boobs.
• Then move your hands to her inner thighs. Tease her by coming this-close to her clitoris but avoiding the tiny bit of pleasure for now.
• Start giving her oral, and while you do, massage her butt, making your way to her perineum (between her butt and vagina). Use two fingers and rub in a circular motion.
• When you feel she’s about to finish, start stroking her pubic area just outside her labia. You should also use your fingers on her C-spot while you kiss the area around it. She’s wetter than Niagara Falls? Now’s the time for penetration and fast, rhythmic movements. You’ll both end things up in style and you won’t feel like you’ve ejaculated too early.
Have an amazingly sexual week,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. There is no such thing as premature ejaculation if you make sure she comes before you do. So things are rather simple: all you have to do is get her so revved up she’ll want you to come as soon as she comes. To discover more advanced tips and techniques about premature ejaculation CLICK HERE NOW!
