Oral sex is one of my favorite topics because it’s so complex that it turns me on every time I exchange opinions with other women. And guess what I’m about to tell you: you simply NEED to become an expert because it’s the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm.
Why is oral sex so pleasurable for a woman? I would bet on the tingly sensations she gets when you use your tongue, easily the most powerful muscle in the entire human body. It gives subtle but firm stimulation, which is exactly what she needs to reach the climax. Plus, if you do it right, you hit the main spot: her clitoris. And boom! – an orgasmic journey begins.
But did I tell you some men don’t even know where the clitoris is located? Don’t worry, I’m not trying to be patronizing, just want to make sure you don’t overwork your jaw in vain. Make sure to explore your lady’s sexy area enough to know all of her sensitive spots. You should be able to feel the clitoris with your hand if you massage the area right above her urethra – you’ll be surprised to find out it’s not as close to the vagina opening as you may have thought.
This is the main reason why it’s so hard for women to reach orgasm. It’s nearly impossible to stimulate the clitoris through penetration alone, which is why she’ll enjoy some tongue action in the area.
If you follow my secret steps she will reach erotic euphoria every single time!
1. Tease her first
A lot of men treat oral sex as foreplay, just as they do kissing and touching, but because it’s so intense you should wait a bit more before getting to business. Believe or not, she needs to be wet and aroused to actually enjoy the treat. The clit area is very sensitive, but if she’s not aroused your tongue strokes will just bring physical discomfort. So wait until her breathing becomes heavy and start by gently massaging it with your hand.
2. Explore the WHOLE area
Going straight for the clit won’t bring her the extreme climax I want you to be able to give. The mistake you make is focusing on one spot – instead, treat her V-zone as a whole and explore it gently, slowly. Make her want it so bad that she begs for it. I would say using a combination of hand, lips and tongue will make you a winner in the “best orgasm of the year” category.
3. Start with gentle strokes
Every woman is different, but experience has thought me that most women like gentle strokes at first and then, the more turned on they get, the more pressure you should apply. It’s pretty tricky to get it right at first, but remember to ask her what feels right as you go… It’s the only way you’ll reach perfection. Anyway, if she says “Yes”, “Harder” or pulls your head in closer it means she likes it and wants more of it.
4. Let her take control
Being completely passive isn’t that exciting for your lady. She might feel comfortable lying on her back, but taking control would bring so much pleasure. Most women reach orgasm through grinding against their man’s mouth. Unfortunately, they are ashamed of doing that. If you don’t have anything against it, I suggest you encourage her to grab your head, hold it firmly against her and then push into your lips. It’s one of the most erotic moves you can experience together – with 100% chances of climax!
5. Stop making this unsatisfying move
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is trying to penetrate her vagina with your tongue the same way you would with your penis. This does absolutely nothing for her and for many women is actually very uncomfortable. Use your tongue in the outside area and insert two fingers in the vagina… but only if you feel she’s wet enough.
6. Put a pillow under her butt
This makes it easier for you the reach the famous G-spot while fingering. Plus, it will give her more leverage to move her hips against you in a way that feels more amazing than you imagine. Such a simple but effective trick!
7. Use a sex toy
If you two lovebirds don’t own a vibrator, I feel for you. Especially during oral, it’s a great pleasuring tool because you can use it in her vagina while stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. It will feel ten times better than using your fingers, mainly because of those naughty vibrations.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S.: I appreciate men who take time to learn the tantalizing techniques of oral pleasuring – they are such a rare find! Baby, if you’re willing to discover even more advanced tricks to pleasure your woman with your mouth, I recommend you check out my explosive program on the matter – Oral Rapture!
