The majority of sex involves a man achieving orgasm… and a woman left waiting for hers. I know, it’s pretty grim out there if you’re a lady. But guys suffer, too. Your orgasm brings little to no comfort when you’re struggling to understand why you’re not satisfying your partner. If you blame it all on size – and most guys do, actually – stop. Pleasuring a woman to the maximum has nothing to do with how big, average or small you are.
Women can experience many different types of orgasms, depending on which part of her body you are stimulating. They can be quick, short, localized, deep, concentrated or full-body. And you can experiment with as many different kinds as you want, because if there’s one thing I know for sure is that you’ve got all the tools you need in those pants. All you’re lacking is the proper guidance on how to use them to the best of your advantage.
01The unigasm
This is an orgasm where stimulation is focused on one primary erogenous zone such as the clitoris, G-Spot, anus or nipples. It’s pretty straightforward and it basically means you have to choose your weapon and, most importantly, where to put it. You can give your partner an unigasm via most of the naughty tools in your arsenal – mouth, fingers, penis.
02The nipplegasm
According to scientists, brain scans show that when women stroke their nipples, it activates the same area of the brain that responds to clitoral and vaginal stimulations. For women, having their breasts caressed and nipples sucked releases oxytocin, the chemical that, among other things, makes them feel like they are in love. Researches have discovered that at least 1% of women are able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone. You can play with her nipples using your penis as well, but make sure you lube it up nice and good beforehand, so that you don’t cause any pain.
03The bigasm
Many people are experienced with forms of dual stimulation – a penis and a tongue, a vagina and a tongue, a finger and a tongue, and other combinations. This is, obviously, more intense than the unigasm, so it’s definitely worth exploring. Try sucking on her clitoris while stimulating her G-Spot with your fingers, or licking her perineum while fingering her vagina. She can return the favor by licking your testicles while handling your penis or sucking your penis while stimulating your prostate (a gland accessible via the anus).
04The blended orgasm
A blended orgasm is much like the bigasm, but with a little twist. The intention for the blended orgasm is to make it last much longer by teasing your partner and stimulating one primary erogenous zone, then teasing another, then going back to the first, and so on. This technique is a great way to monitor your partner’s pleasure scale and is also very beneficial for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. If you’re stimulating her and her responses are bringing you close to orgasm, you can move your attention to another of her erogenous zones to prolong the ecstasy for both of you.
Start by choosing your partner’s favorite orgasm-inducing technique, such as oral stimulation on the clitoris. Get her aroused to a level 6 on the pleasure scale (10 being the top) and then switch to another technique you enjoy (such as stimulation of the G-Spot) and get her aroused to a level seven this time. Switch back to the first technique, raise her arousal level to eight and then back to the second technique at least three times before reaching a level 10 on the orgasm scale.
05The trigasm
So here’s the revolution, the ultimate orgasm: the trigasm. A female trigasm is achieving by simultaneously arousing three points of pleasure: the clitoris, G-Spot and anus. Here’s how you should do that. Have her lie back while you concentrate on her clitoris until she reaches a level eight on the pleasure scale. Change course and stimulate her vulva in small circles with your tongue for two minutes. Return to the clitoris and orally increase her pleasure almost to the point of no return. Then insert your forefinger, palm up, into her vagina, and gently tap towards her navel on her G-Spot. Simultaneously, gently stimulate her anus with a pinky finger or a vibrator to bring her to an extraordinary trigasm.
Hot kisses,Gabrielle MooreThe voice of Naked U · Who we are
