In the Deep: A Husband’s Guide to Interior Genital Touch

Don’t penetrate her without lubrication unless she has explicitly asked you to do so. If she is having difficult getting wet enough, bring in the reinforcements. Don’t make a big deal of it – many women are self-conscious about relying on products to perform functions they think their body should be able to do on its own, and there is no such need to fret. Lube is great even for those of us who do lubricate well, because it allows us to experience a whole new set of sensations!

Start slow to begin with, not entering her with any force at all, but allowing her to use her PC muscles to “pull” your fingers in. Once you have entered her, try putting a bit of pressure on the walls of the vagina by swirling your fingers around in a circular motion and stopping to make smaller circles on-the-spot all the way around. You are likely to find that some areas of her entrance are more sensitive than others, which will help you to focus your energy there during intercourse as well!

01Around the Bend

The most effective hand movement for interior stimulation is the “come hither” motion, characterized by curling the fingers in toward the palm. This little crook in your (typically, index and middle) fingers can be used to find the G-Spot about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal canal, as well as the A-Spot a couple inches beyond that. Both are incredible stimulation points for encouraging ejaculatory orgasms and lubrication. Don’t press too hard, and don’t thrust at all unless she begins to thrust herself onto your hand.

A twisting motion of the wrist while stimulating the front wall will hit her G-Spot and/or A-Spot with the same crooked fingers gives her a chance to experience the side-to-side motion, something altogether different from the thrusting or beckoning movement that most women are used to with this kind of play. You can also use this same finger pose to stimulate the back wall of her vagina, with your palm facing down toward her spine. She may not be accustomed to this kind of direct touch here, so take it easy and follow her lead.

02A Fork In the Road

If you want to be truly masterful at genital touching, you will learn to stimulate your wife’s inner chamber and outer erogenous zones at the same time. You can use two hands both directed at her sex, or one hand focusing both externally and internally, while the other hand reaches for her breast or stimulates yourself!

One-handed moves are not nearly as difficult as they might sound. With your index and middle fingers you can stimulate her G-Spot while using your lubricated thumb to stroke her clit or rub her urethral opening, getting her even closer to the infamous squirting orgasm. If you want to get extra fancy, you can even employ a little round-about action and use your pinkie finger in this configuration to penetrate her anally! If she isn’t into rear entry, simply stroke her perineum gently with the backs of your ring and pinkie fingers. If you can pull off these great combo moves, you’re sure to bring her all the way over the edge.

Kisses,Gabrielle MooreThe voice of Naked U · Who we are