– Jacob BronowskiHave you ever had the chance to stare in wonder at the mechanics of your hand, the intricacies of your motor movements? Do it now – lay your arm and hand palm down on the table and slowly drum your fingers. Look closely at the fleshy part of your forearm, just before your elbow. Can you see it undulating as the muscles control the movement of your fingers?The manipulation of the 18 muscles in the arms along with the 17 in the palm that move your fingers, takes an entire quarter of the motor cortex and an equal percentage of the sensory nervous system. Your brain is all wrapped up in your ability to touch, with 48 named nerves corresponding just to your most handy tools, so darling you can see just what makes your fabulous fingers a woman’s favorite sex toy!
It’s Not You
More than half of all women prefer their own fingers or a vibrator to having sex with you for an orgasm. Luckily, you are good for a lot of other things, and I don’t just mean taking out the trash. The love and intimacy a woman shares with her lover is the important aspect that she seeks out when she goes through all the trials and tribulations of maintaining a long-term sexual relationship.
When it comes to making her come, you may not have to be a virtuoso to keep her coming back to bed, but if you want to keep her there, it’s time you learned a few things about how to hold her tight. Most men think that being “better” in bed means staying hard longer, or having more stamina, but studies have clearly shown that most women prefer their sexy to be short, sweet and to the point. Foreplay is important, but once you’re past that point of no return, 3 to 7 minutes are enough, and 7 to 13 minutes are just right. You don’t need to be a superstud to have super sex.
The Artist’s Touch
When you think about the complexities of the human hand and pair that with the intricacies of the female body, it might be easy to get a bit overwhelmed. Simply remember when you reach for your lover that her body is an instrument, one that needs to be played, not tuned. Aim to be a musician playing the song of sex, instead of a technician turning her dials and pressing her buttons, hoping for the best.
From the origin of language, to masterpieces of painting, sculpture, music and literature, our hands are responsible for some of the most potent and awe-inspiring inventions of creativity and technology. Don’t let this incredible feat of evolution go to waste! The future, my dear, is in your hands.
Strength in Numbers
Aside from the obvious erogenous zones of the body, like the genitals, lips and tongue, the hands demand the most attention. To seek out touch is our most natural inclination and is possibly even more important than food or water. Infants who are deprived of human touch will, eventually, whither a die, failing to thrive without the loving touch that is associated with the care of a mother.
Each hand is truly individual, with the deep lines of the palm and the intricate whorls and waves of the fingerprints. In fact, the number of bones, muscles, tendons and nerves that control each hand is really just an estimate. Yours are entirely unique and although you may have been ignoring them for some time now, they hold in their true orgasmic potential!
Just think… there are folks out there who have made a living training their fingers to support the weight of their entire body with the strength in those ten digits. Since it takes four times the pressure exerted by the arms than actually is manifested through the fingers, you can see just how strong those muscles can become, with a little practice!
Just What She Needs
If it’s been a long while since you’ve tried anything new in bed, if your wife is struggling to orgasm during intercourse, or if you just want to maximize your stamina while giving her the most pleasure, stick around! I’ve written a book all about fingering that will help you keep your hand in the game, so keep your eyes open for all the hot tips coming your way.
Hot kisses,
Gabrielle Moore
P.S. Your woman will crave fingering if you do it well – especially since not a lot of men have this skill. If you want to learn more, I recommend you check out my program on the matter – Flirting Fingers.
