Have you ever heard of a bucket list? Well, it’s a list of things you want to do before you die. It shouldn’t sound morbid, it’s actually a great way to make sure you realize some of your life’s dreams and goals. On your typical bucket list you might find things like: visit Antarctica, climb Mount Everest, reunite with my childhood best friend, make a million dollars before age 65, etc. Well, today we’re going to talk about a bucket list that is a little more racy than your typical one. It’s a sexual bucket list. Sexual things you want to do before you go.
A sexual bucket list is not only a fun challenge for you, it is also an amazing way to get ideas for how to improve your sexual relationship with your partner. If you feel like things have been in a rut lately, do new and different things is a great way to propel yourself right out of that funk. If you’re currently single, a sexual bucket list can take on a new meaning and include things that the relationship list might not have.
Keep in mind with this kind of list that the idea isn’t to complete it in one month. The list might take some time. You might add things along the way and take other things off without completing them. If you’re in a relationship you have to remember that all things on the list are subject to your partner’s approval. It’s a fun way to spice things up and keep things interesting in your relationship. A bucket list is meant to take time to complete, so enjoy it, don’t rush it!
Today I’m going to share a sample bucket list with you to get some ideas flowing. A fun way to share this with your partner is for each of you to separately make your own list and then get together to share what you’ve written. It’s a great way to learn about your partner’s secret fantasies or what she really loves to do. Another idea is to make a couple’s list together. Both ideas are great, but making them separately allows you to really be open about things you want to try.
Here is my sample list, some things will be on the tame side, others will be much more racy. Take from it what you like and leave what you don’t!
1. Have sex vacation weekend where you have sex at least 10 times in one weekend 2. Have sex in a jacuzzi 3. Have sex in a parking lot (car optional!) 4. Visit a swingers club (you don’t have to participate, you can just watch if you want!) 5. Have sex on a sex swing 6. Visit a strip club together and get a lap dance for both of you 7. Give her multiple orgasms 8. Devote an entire day to just pleasing her: think oral sex, erotic massages, drawing her a hot bath, cooking or ordering her favorite meals. 9. Have her devote an entire day to just pleasing you: you get to set the rules with this one! 10. Find her g-spot and try giving her a G spot orgasm 11. Have sex in a rain storm 12. Have a quickie in a bathroom 13. Have foreplay sex while blindfolded 14. Watch pornography together 15. Try anal sex 16. Have sex on a boat 17. Watch each other masturbate to completion 18. Have sex on the beach 19. Give her oral sex every day for a week 20. Have sex in a one hour motel 21. Have sex in the woods 22. Go shopping at a sex toy shop together 23. Practice role playing scenarios 24. Get a couples massage (while this isn’t sexual in nature, it can be a great way to relax and reconnect as a couple. When you get home from the massage you can ravage each other!) 25. Join the mile high club 26. Have phone sex 27. Have video chat sex 28. Make a “home video” (AKA sex tape!) 29. Experiment with bonage (tie eachother up) 30. Take a class on giving massages 31. Have sex in a public place 32. Have oral sex in a public place 33. Go skinny dipping with your partner 34. Have sex with food involved 35. Look at internet porn together 36. Read each other erotic stories aloud 37. Have sex in an elevator 38. Use a new sex toy 39. Have anal sex 40. Allow her to dominate you for a night 41. Dominate her for a night 42. Touch each other under the dinner table out at a restaurant 43. Spend an entire day naked together 44. Go lingerie shopping together 45. Use ice on each other’s bodies 46. Have sex in someone else’s bed 47. Have sex in your childhood bedroom 48. Have sex in your place of work or hers 49. Have sex when there are a lot of people around who could catch you 50. Realize a personal fantasy
Have fun adding to the list! Kisses,Gabrielle MooreThe voice of Naked U · Who we are
