Why She Hasn’t Squirted Yet (Even If She’s Been Close)

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Why She Hasn’t Squirted Yet (Even If She’s Been Close)

By Gabrielle Moore®2 min read

Part of the guide: How to make her squirt: the complete step-by-step guide

You’ve touched her right. You’ve followed the rhythm. She’s moaned, tensed, begged for more… but still no squirt? This might be the reason why.

Here’s something no one tells you:

Most women don’t squirt—not because their body can’t—but because their mind won’t let them.

What stops her? One word: fear.

Not fear of you hurting her. Not fear of pain. But fear of embarrassment.

She’s afraid she might pee. She’s afraid she might smell. She’s afraid she’ll look gross or “too much.”

And worst of all? She’s afraid you’ll think less of her for it.

01Over 60% of Women Admit They Hold Back Their Bodies During Orgasm

That includes pulling away, clenching up, or stopping sex altogether the moment they feel the squirting release build.

The reason? Shame.

Even women who want to squirt often stop themselves when it’s about to happen. That hot, swelling, urgent pressure? They confuse it with needing to pee. So they shut it down.

What’s wild is:

02You might’ve already made her squirt—and she stopped it.

She’s right there. But unless she feels totally safe to let go—to release like a wild, soaking goddess—her body won’t follow through.

03What Can You Do About It?

Simple. Give her permission.

Say it. Whisper it. Growl it in her ear:

“Let it go. I want it. Don’t hold back.”

Make it clear you love it. That it turns you on. That it’s not gross—it’s glorious.

And once she hears that? Once her brain believes it? Her body will follow. And you’ll finally see what she’s been holding back all along.

04This Might Be the One Thing Holding You Back

If you’ve done everything right… and still no squirting?

This is it.

Forget better technique for a second. The biggest unlock is emotional. And if you break this barrier? You’ll be the man she never forgets.

With pleasure,Gabrielle MooreThe voice of Naked U · Who we are

P.S. You’ve probably already made her squirt. She just didn’t let it happen. Let me show you how to change that →

About this guide. Written by the Gabrielle Moore® sex-education team, who have taught men about women’s pleasure for more than 20 years. General education for adults, not medical advice. Who we are

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Fiction versus fact first: what it really is, and why it's nothing to be embarrassed of.

  • What scientists found when they studied this mysterious fluid
  • Why she may feel the urge to go as it builds
  • Why many women find it extremely emotional, especially the first few times
  • The open mind you both need, and how she can help

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